“God bless Jeff and the fellowship he has created. I found him just in the nick of time, several weeks before sentencing.  I had never spoken to anyone who had been through circumstances like these, and very soon I had an embarrassment of riches with respect to support.  I no longer felt alone, I had many new friends to talk to, and was even able to provide support and comfort in turn to those who were not as far along in the process as I.  As Jeff said, none of the questions I had were unique or theoretical – someone he knows has been through it.  As with pretty much every aspect of modern life, separation is the chief problem, and helping and asking for help are the solutions.  I have been able to get through the days with dignity, love and even a little joy.  A great deal of that is due to Jeff’s work.”